Certain forms of practical deference seem to be incompatible with personal autonomy. I argue that such deference undermines autonomy not by compromising the governance of an authentic self, nor by constituting a failure to track objective reasons, but by constituting a particular social relation: one of interpersonal rule. I analyze this social relation and distinguish it from others, including ordinary relations of love and care. Finally, I argue that the particular form of interpersonal rule constituted by dispositions of practical deference in itself entails a partial, though not total, disconnection from the good of a self-authored life.

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代写的生活：自治、尊重和自我授权

某些形式的实际尊重似乎与个人自主权不相容。我认为，这种尊重破坏了自主性，不是通过损害真实自我的治理，也不是通过构成无法追踪客观原因，而是通过构成一种特殊的社会关系：人际关系规则之一。我分析了这种社会关系并将其与其他社会关系区分开来，包括普通的爱与关怀关系。最后，我认为，由实际尊重的倾向构成的人际规则的特殊形式本身必然会部分地，但不是全部地，与自我创造的生活的好处脱节。