First friendships shape children’s brains and thereby their self-regulatory and social capacities. Mothers and others who offer our species’ evolved developmental niche, or evolved nest, provide the appropriate support for growing a cooperative, prosocial community member. Unnested children are less likely to develop our species-typical prosociality and instead be prone to authoritarian tendencies.

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第一次友谊：和平的基础

最初的友谊塑造了孩子的大脑，从而塑造了他们的自我调节和社交能力。母亲和其他提供我们物种进化的发育生态位或进化巢穴的人，为培养一个合作的、亲社会的社区成员提供了适当的支持。没有嵌套的孩子不太可能发展出我们物种典型的亲社会性，而是倾向于独裁倾向。