This article aims to reflect on the unconscious dynamics that sustain the shocking increase in feminicide in the world. It is observed that psychological and physical violence by the intimate partner has numerous facets, especially when the woman gains more or has more professional success than her partner. This violence can take a subtle form as rejection and betrayal in order to hurt the woman and destroy her self-esteem and success. Based on numerous studies and bibliography it is demonstrated that the main cause of violence by the intimate partner is the fear of the power of the feminine that has been present throughout history. Despite the evolution of women, historical violence reverberates in the 21st century as an intergenerational trauma causing great suffering in families and disturbances in interpersonal relationships.

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“奥斯卡诅咒”或女性发展的代价。

本文旨在反思维持世界上杀害女性的惊人增长的无意识动力。据观察，亲密伴侣的心理和身体暴力有很多方面，特别是当女性比她的伴侣获得更多或职业成功时。这种暴力可以采取一种微妙的形式，如拒绝和背叛，以伤害女性并摧毁她的自尊和成功。基于大量研究和参考书目，表明亲密伴侣暴力的主要原因是对历史上一直存在的女性力量的恐惧。尽管女性在进化，但历史上的暴力作为一种代际创伤在 21 世纪引起了反响，造成家庭的巨大痛苦和人际关系的干扰。