I chose to review these three books together, as all explore relationships over time. All are informed by psychoanalytic ideas, yet are written for a general audience. My perspective is that of a psychoanalyst who treats children, adolescents, adults, and couples, but also that of a general reader who consumes novels, poetry, biographies, art history, self-help books, blogs, memes, and maps.

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粗糙的补丁：婚姻和共同生活的艺术，孔雀盛宴和接近九十和其他晚年喜剧

我选择一起回顾这三本书，因为它们都会随着时间的推移探索关系。所有这些都受到精神分析思想的启发，但却是为普通读者而写的。我的观点是一位治疗儿童、青少年、成人和夫妻的精神分析学家，也是一位阅读小说、诗歌、传记、艺术史、自助书籍、博客、模因和地图的普通读者的观点。