Research on preventive socialization of gender violence has contributed abundant empirical evidence that attraction to violence is common among adolescents. This has meant that “bad guys”, or those who reflect the Dominant Traditional Masculinity model, are chiefly perceived as appealing, while “good guys” are perceived as good friends but not desirable. The mainstream media tends to reproduce this traditional model of affective-sexual relationships, which has harmful effects on young girls concerning gender and sexuality. However, New Alternative Masculinity men are challenging this traditional and unsatisfactory model of affective-sexual relationships. The 2010 Spanish version of the movie Three Steps above Heaven, a good example of this kind of media product, has proven to greatly impact communicative acts among adolescents. This article explores how this influence on adolescents is because the communicative acts about Hache –the main character in the movie– are full of the language of desire, and his own communicative acts are full of violence. On the one hand, we analyze how Three Steps above Heaven employs communicative acts to enhance the attractiveness of Dominant Traditional Masculinity. On the other hand, based on the evidence gathered in a communicative focus group addressed to 15- and 16-year-old female adolescents, we analyze how New Alternative Masculinity men are demystifying Hache and the idea of having a ‘Three Steps Above Heaven’ by demonstrating with the powerful language of desire that men like him employ farce strategies. The article includes evidence from interventions with adolescents where discussion of movies like this, with the involvement of New Alternative Masculinity men and grounded in the language of desire, can transform the perception about the sexual-affective relationship in the movie, thus counteracting their negative influence in terms of attraction to violence.

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'天堂之上的三个步骤？真的吗？这就是所有战术！新的男子气概消除了主要的传统男子气概的策略

对性别暴力的预防性社会化的研究提供了丰富的经验证据，表明对暴力的吸引力在青少年中很普遍。这意味着，主要认为“坏人”或那些反映了传统男性气概模型的人很有吸引力，而“好人”被视为好朋友，但不是可取的。主流媒体倾向于重现这种传统的情感-性关系模型，这种模型对年轻女孩的性别和性行为产生有害影响。但是，新男性气质男人正在挑战这种传统的，不能令人满意的情感-性关系模型。2010年西班牙版电影《天堂之上的三个步骤》是这类媒体产品的一个很好的例子，事实证明，它极大地影响了青少年之间的交流行为。本文探讨了这种对青少年的影响是因为电影中的主要角色Hach的交往行为充满了欲望的语言，而他自己的交往行为充满了暴力。一方面，我们分析了“上天三步曲”如何运用交际行为来增强传统阳刚之气的吸引力。另一方面，基于针对15岁和16岁女性青少年的交流焦点小组中收集的证据，我们分析了新男性气质男人如何使哈奇神秘化以及“天上三步曲”的想法。通过用强烈的欲望语言来证明像他这样的男人采用闹剧策略。本文包含来自青少年干预的证据，这些青少年在讨论像这样的电影时，