This article presents the findings from a dialogical research project involving a young adult student with lived experiences in care (inside-out perspective) and a seasoned child and youth care professional (outside-in perspective), exploring the pain of complex trauma and formulating healing responses to pain-based behaviour. The co-authors identify elements and dynamics related to the healing journey and present their findings largely in conversational format congruent with the process of discovery. Notions of family privilege, shattered assumptions, double distortion, pain and pain-based behaviour, the language of pain, evolution of self, moments of choice, following the yellow brick road, eight stages of healing, and self-compassion are discussed with an emphasis on understanding and responding supportively to the lived experiences of young people in and from care.

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理解和响应来自护理中和来自护理的疼痛和基于疼痛的行为：从内而外的视角

本文介绍了一个对话研究项目的发现，该项目涉及具有护理经验的年轻成年学生（由内而外）和经验丰富的儿童和青年护理专业人员（由内而外），探讨复杂创伤的痛苦并制定治疗方案对基于疼痛的行为的反应。合著者确定了与康复过程有关的要素和动态，并以与发现过程一致的对话形式大体上介绍了他们的发现。家庭特权的概念，破碎的假设，双重扭曲，痛苦和基于痛苦的行为，痛苦的语言，自我的演变，选择的时刻，遵循黄砖路，八个康复阶段，