Abstract

As a grieving father of a physician daughter who died by suicide, I continually struggle how to make meaning and sense of my horrific and tragic loss. In a moment of reflection, I looked at her life, “through her eyes,” and although, my heart will remain shattered forever, I felt momentary peace paying tribute to, and acknowledging, her pain. Although she had tremendous challenges, the poem was written with understanding, love, and a true appreciation for her wisdom and beauty.

中文翻译：

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通过她的眼睛

摘要

作为一个因自杀而去世的医生女儿的悲痛父亲，我一直在为如何使我的可怕和悲惨的损失有意义和感到困惑。在片刻的反思中，我“通过她的眼睛”注视着她的生活，尽管我的心将永远破碎，但我感到短暂的和平向她的痛苦表示敬意，并承认她的痛苦。尽管她面临着巨大的挑战，但是这首诗还是以理解，爱心和对她的智慧和美丽的真正欣赏而写的。