This article examines morality as it is experienced in the quotidian running of family life through an analysis of video‐recorded spontaneous family interactions in Los Angeles, California. It argues that certain interactions afford the unfolding of morality experience through reflexive talk, in which speakers “bracket” the ongoing experience in order to critically reflect on it, thus making the ethical known. It demonstrates that often the underlying moral trouble is not immediately apparent and is not necessarily concerned with the momentary details. Instead, the interactional moment incites the speaker to shift to a reflexive stance and address a moral concern. The ubiquitous nature of this moral work exposes the contemporary pressures that parents experience as they negotiate the best ways to parent, raise moral children, and become virtuous families.

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平凡的家庭互动中的普通伦理和反思

本文通过对加利福尼亚州洛杉矶的录像记录的自发家庭互动进行分析，考察了家庭生活在日常生活中所经历的道德。它认为，某些互动通过反思性谈话提供了道德体验的展开，其中演讲者“包围”了正在进行的经历，以便对其进行批判性反思，从而使道德观念广为人知。它表明，潜在的道德问题通常并不会立即显现，也不一定与当前的细节有关。相反，互动时刻促使说话者转向反身立场并解决道德问题。这种道德行为无所不在，暴露了父母在协商最佳养父母方式，养育有道德的孩子，