Abstract
Purpose
Although alcohol-related intimate partner violence (IPV) is a serious public health problem, the mechanisms underlying this association are poorly understood. For instance, prior research has shown differences in distressed violent (DV) and distressed nonviolent (DNV) couples’ demand/withdraw communication and the extent to which they become emotionally flooded (i.e., physiologically aroused) in response to conflict. Additionally, alcohol use is associated with increased demand/withdraw communication, IPV, and emotional flooding. Therefore, the present study sought to clarify the association between demand/withdraw communication and emotional flooding among relationally couples who use alcohol and who do and do not experience IPV.
Methods
Relationally distressed couples (Mage = 30.1 years) reported on their physical aggression, demand/withdraw communication, emotional flooding, and total number of drinks during the past six months. Couples were denoted as DV (N = 58) if at least one partner reported IPV and DNV (N = 29) if neither partner reported IPV. Actor-partner interdependence modeling was used to test whether couple type (DV versus DNV) moderates the link between demand/withdraw behavior and emotional flooding.
Results
With one exception, alcohol use was unrelated to any of the processes under investigation in the current study. Moreover, men’s and women’s report of a woman-demand/man-withdraw pattern and man-demand/woman-withdraw pattern, respectively, were positively associated with each partner’s own emotional flooding. Couple type (DV vs DNV) did not moderate these associations.
Conclusion
The present results highlight the need for sensitive measures that can capture the nuanced processes that underlie IPV in couples who use alcohol.
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Biesen, J.N., Orban, D., Ford, T. et al. Contributions of Demand/Withdraw Processes and Alcohol Consumption on Emotional Flooding in Distressed Violent versus Distressed Non-Violent Couples. J Fam Viol 38, 869–882 (2023). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-022-00419-0
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