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Progress in Resolving Splitting Tendencies: A Qualitative Case Report of Facing Conflicting Fears with Relationality, Humility, and Patience

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Splitting as a psychological defence by patients who struggle to process dichotomies remains an important focus in current therapy trials. Such case research done in a cross-cultural context of therapist and patient is limited. The present qualitative case report involves a 44-year-old male who had two conflicting fears, inherently making those fears inaccessible since resolving one fear exacerbated the other opposing fear. We provide a narrative discussion of the case learning from the therapist-in-training and her supervisor. Building a solid relational focus grounded in a social constructionist approach played a vital role in the therapeutic and supervisory process. In this process, attention to therapy as a performed conversation, humility, patience, dialogue, persuasion and self-awareness were crucial concepts. This case report marks how a developmental space for both patient and therapist was co-created and how resolving of splitting tendencies could commence.

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All authors contributed to the study conception, design and data analysis. Kyli Benadie performed material preparation and data collection. She wrote the first draft of the manuscript, and both authors commented on previous versions of the manuscript. Both authors read and approved the final manuscript.

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Benadie-Chowles, K., Pistorius, A.G. Progress in Resolving Splitting Tendencies: A Qualitative Case Report of Facing Conflicting Fears with Relationality, Humility, and Patience. J Contemp Psychother 51, 341–348 (2021). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10879-021-09508-5

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