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The beloved icon: an Augustinian solution to the problem of sex

Published online by Cambridge University Press:  18 January 2021

Onsi A. Kamel*
Affiliation:
The Davenant Institute, Leesburg, VA, USA
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*Corresponding author. E-mail: onsiakamel@outlook.com

Abstract

Augustine famously believed fallen human sex to be inescapably bound up with sinful lust. In every sexual act, lust embodies both the sin of the fall (prideful idolatry) and that sin's consequences. John C. Cavadini has extended Augustine's conception of lust to include domination, and even violence. This leaves us with a disturbing question: is sex without violence possible? Building upon Jean-Luc Marion's distinction between idol and icon, this paper locates a solution to the problem of lust in Augustine's conception of friendship. Identifying the beloved as an icon of God entails relating to the beloved without lustful domination.

Type
Research Article
Copyright
Copyright © Cambridge University Press 2021

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15 Cavadini, ‘Feeling Right’, pp. 198, 209. Strikingly, as Cavadini has demonstrated, Augustine's critique of sex is similar to certain feminist critiques, especially that of Andrea Dworkin.

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25 For other fruitful investigations of Augustinian friendship in relation to Marion's concept of icon, see Richard B. Miller, ‘Evil, Friendship, and Iconic Realism in Augustine's Confessions’, Harvard Theological Review 104/4 (Oct. 2011), pp. 387–409; and Hubbard, ‘Idolatrous Friendship’.

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31 Augustine, Confessions 4.8.12.

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33 Ibid.

34 Ibid.

35 Ibid.

36 Ibid., 4.6.11.

37 Ibid.

38 Ibid., 4.8.13.

39 Ibid., 4.6.11.

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42 Miller, ‘Evil, Friendship, and Iconic Realism’, p. 391.

43 Augustine, Confessions 4.7.12.

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45 Augustine, Confessions 10.32.48.

46 Ibid., 10.33.49.

47 Ibid.

48 Ibid.

49 Ibid., 10.11.65.

50 Ibid.

51 Ibid.; cf. Rom 7:15.

52 Ibid., 10.33.49.

53 Ibid.

54 Ibid., 10.3.3.

55 Ibid., 10.3.4.

56 Ibid.

57 Ibid., 10.43.69.

58 Ibid.

59 Ibid.

60 Ibid., 10.43.70.

61 Augustine, Sermons 272.

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63 Ibid.

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68 Ibid.

69 Ibid., pp. 213–14.

70 See e.g. 1 Cor 11:26 and Rom 6:3.