Abstract This autoethnographic piece is my way of working through a two-year period of my life with an emotionally abusive romantic partner. While creatively recounting my experiences and detailing the demise of my romantic relationship and self-worth, I have uncovered the ways in which I was blind to emotional abuse and the ways in which I endured constant mistrust and criticism. I hope that sharing these stories demonstrates the significance of altering the discourse surrounding intimate partner emotional abuse in queer relationships. Communication scholars must strive for inclusivity when dissecting intimate partner emotional abuse as a communicative phenomenon to validate and secure representation of the experiences of those who identify as bisexual.

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“如果你遇到其他人怎么办？”：对双性恋和亲密伴侣情感虐待的自我民族志描述

摘要 这篇自述民族志作品是我与一个情感虐待的浪漫伴侣一起度过我生命中两年时间的方式。在创造性地讲述我的经历并详细描述我的浪漫关系和自我价值的消亡的同时，我发现了我对情感虐待视而不见的方式以及我忍受不断的不信任和批评的方式。我希望分享这些故事可以证明改变围绕同性恋关系中亲密伴侣情感虐待的话语的重要性。传播学者在剖析亲密伴侣情感虐待作为一种传播现象时必须争取包容性，以验证和确保双性恋者的经历的表现。