ABSTRACT In this article, we draw on attachment theory, academic research, emotionally focused couple therapy, and our own clinical practice to offer insights into situational couple violence (SCV) and its therapeutic management. We argue that SCV arises from negative interaction patterns, which can be described by four patterns of violence that represent different attachment behaviours between partners. By understanding these dynamics, SCV is understood within a refined attachment-based therapeutic paradigm that gives the therapist a clear roadmap of how SCV is related to the underlying emotions and needs of both partners.

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为联系而战：亲密伴侣暴力的模式

摘要 在本文中，我们利用依恋理论、学术研究、情感聚焦夫妻治疗和我们自己的临床实践，提供对情境夫妻暴力 (SCV) 及其治疗管理的见解。我们认为 SCV 源于消极互动模式，这可以通过代表伴侣之间不同依恋行为的四种暴力模式来描述。通过了解这些动态，在基于依恋的精致治疗范式中理解 SCV，该范式为治疗师提供了一个清晰的路线图，即 SCV 如何与双方的潜在情绪和需求相关联。