Although college gay and bisexual men report elevated rates of sexual victimization, their accounts have received less scholarly attention. This article examines 18 gay, bisexual, and questioning (GBQ) men's narratives about their experiences of unwanted sex in college. Our findings suggest that men are motivated to have unwanted sex while trying to navigate ambiguous sexual scripts amid male power dynamics, sexual inexperience, and ubiquitous heteronormativity and homophobia. Due to less defined sexual scripts and/or inexperience, men sometimes overlaid a heterosexual script onto encounters, resulting in an expectation that the 'top' should have an orgasm. The stigma of being gay (or its potential) also entered into sexual interactions, pushing people to have sex in secrecy, in remote locations, or with closeted people who use force or threats to obtain sex. Together, these gendered and homophobic social pressures combine to leave GBQ men grappling with a double bind. As part of this double bind, GBQ men feel pressure to have sex in order to perform properly as a man—and specifically as a gay or bisexual man. They also fear losing control in a sexual situation, which could result in emasculation.

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“没有规则的情况”：同性恋，双性恋和询问男人的有害性行为

尽管大学男同性恋者和双性恋者报告说性受害率上升，但他们的报道受到的学术关注较少。本文研究了18位男同性恋，双性恋和询问（GBQ）男性叙事中有关他们在大学中不受欢迎的性行为的经历。我们的研究结果表明，在男性力量动态，性经验不足以及普遍存在的异性恋和同性恋恐惧症中，男性在试图驾驭歧义性脚本时会被激励进行性行为。由于对性脚本和/或经验不足的定义，男人有时会将异性脚本覆盖到相遇上，从而导致人们期望“上流”应该有性高潮。同性恋（或潜在的同性恋者）的污名也参与了性互动，促使人们在偏远的地方秘密进行性行为，或与使用暴力或威胁进行性关系的封闭人群一起，这些性别和同性恋的社会压力加在一起，使GBQ男子陷入双重困境。作为这种双重约束的一部分，GBQ的男人会感到压力，要求做爱才能以男性的身份正常工作，尤其是作为同性恋或双性恋男人。他们还担心在性生活中失去控制，这可能导致去雄。