ABSTRACT Using the New Yorker story Cat Person, and the babe.net story I went on a date with Aziz Ansari, it turned into the worst night of my life, we explore the possibilities of consent in a context of gender inequality and white supremacy, where women’s physical safety is in danger when in the presence of men, where men have significantly more cultural capital and privilege than women, where white women most easily access narratives about agency and violability, and where the emotional labor in heterosexual relationships falls on women. The article argues for the importance of seeing consent as part of an affective economy, rather than a simple matter of choice and agency, and insists on a contextualizing of consent in the #metoo movement that is attentive to the cultural logics of patriarchy and whiteness.

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同意的劳动：#metoo 时代的情感、能动性和白人

摘要使用纽约客故事 Cat Person 和我与 Aziz Ansari 约会的 babe.net 故事，它变成了我生命中最糟糕的夜晚，我们探讨了在性别不平等和白人至上的背景下同意的可能性，当男性在场时，女性的人身安全处于危险之中，男性比女性拥有更多的文化资本和特权，白人女性最容易获得关于代理和暴力的叙述，以及异性恋关系中的情感劳动落在女性身上。文章认为将同意视为情感经济的一部分的重要性，而不是简单的选择和代理问题，并坚持在关注父权制和白人文化逻辑的#metoo 运动中对同意进行情境化。