Abstract While sociolinguistic studies of politeness and identities present many disciplinary parallels, their paths have seldom intersected (Garces-Conejos Blitvich & Sifianou, 2017, p. 227). It is within this context that this paper uses “small stories” research (Bamberg, 2006; Georgakopoulou, 2006, 2007) and identities analysis to study politeness-in-interaction (Georgakopoulou, 2013b). It particularly looks at a group of young Greek women, and focuses on their “small stories” about the tellers’ and others’ management of politeness norms in intimate relationships. A multi-method approach to data collection is used that involves both naturally-occurring narratives-in-interactions in self-recordings, and reflexive tellings in playback interviews. Drawing on Georgakopoulou’s (2007) triptych of “ways of telling-sites-tellers”, and on Bamberg’s (1997) model of positioning, the analysis illustrates the significance of politeness-related identity claims for signaling lay norms of politeness ratified by the local group of friends. It also shows how politeness construction is intertwined with the interactional fabrication of identities.

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希腊女性关于亲密关系的故事

摘要 虽然对礼貌和身份的社会语言学研究呈现出许多学科相似之处，但它们的路径很少交叉（Garces-Conejos Blitvich & Sifianou，2017，第 227 页）。正是在这种背景下，本文使用“小故事”研究（Bamberg，2006；Georgakopoulou，2006，2007）和身份分析来研究互动中的礼貌（Georgakopoulou，2013b）。它特别着眼于一群年轻的希腊女性，并关注她们关于出纳员和其他人在亲密关系中管理礼貌规范的“小故事”。使用了一种多方法的数据收集方法，既包括在自我录音中自然发生的交互叙述，也包括在回放采访中的反思性讲述。借鉴 Georgakopoulou (2007) 的三联画“讲述地点-讲述者的方式”，并且在 Bamberg (1997) 的定位模型上，分析说明了与礼貌相关的身份声明对于发出当地朋友认可的礼貌规范的重要性。它还显示了礼貌的构建是如何与身份的互动制造交织在一起的。